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Looking for love online? Thinking about meeting a new person you’ve been chatting with online? Want to get to know someone better…?

If you’re actively seeking a new relationship via the internet, there are things you need to know before you start, while your searching and definitely BEFORE you meet in person.

You may be lonely and desperately wanting some attention and companionship, but keep in mind that the decisions you make today could affect your life both positively and negatively for the long term!

The most important thing is to remember to TAKE YOUR TIME. Don’t rush into anything. No one really wants to be alone, but at the same time you don’t want to end up in a situation that you regret, and that takes you either a lot of time, energy, or even MONEY to get out of. People online don’t always represent themselves honestly, and so no matter what someone says, keep your eyes and ears open. If you suspect that someone is misleading you, either ask some probing questions, or stay clear.

Ask lots of questions. Try to be subtle, but don’t be afraid to talk about very personal issues.

Learning how someone behaved in their previous relationship could be an indicator of how they will cope with you. Find out what when wrong and how the other person handled it.

Don’t make excuses for them. If someone doesn’t lead their life in a way you’re comfortable with, than don’t think all will be okay once you influence them. It won’t.

Be honest about what you want and the type of person that suits you. Don’t try to hard to fit their needs and blend into what they want.

Ask about their long term goals. Where they are now may not be where they want to be in 6 months time.

If you want children or have children, be open about it. Otherwise, it could lead to hurt and disappointment for everyone down the road.

Don’t send a photo of yourself from 15 years ago, and ask the same of your new friend. You don’t want someone to be either to thrilled or too disappointed when they see/meet you for the first time! Really, if you look very different to what someone might expect, you may not turn out to be the person they want to spend time with a build a new relationship with for the long term.

Find out what they are looking for and if their relationship desires are the same as yours. If someone says that they are just looking to have some fun, and you want to get married in the future, then respect their wishes but respect your own wishes as well.

It’s true what they say, it never pays to settle. Be true to yourself, and the rest will fall into place, with the person that’s just right for you! If you simply want to get together with just anyone, you’re more likely to be successful meeting just any stranger on the street. If you don’t ask the right questions and take your time getting to know someone you’ve met online, they could turn out to be worse than strangers.

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